Hello and welcome! I’m Benita.
Some people call me B.

I’m a mother of four boys, writer, coach, entrepreneur and Australian farmer.

I’m on a mission to live my best life and help others to do the same.

I believe in the power of vulnerability through storytelling to start and shape meaningful conversations.

I’m passionate about supporting and empowering women, and facilitating authentic discussion around topics encountered on the journey to, and through, motherhood like endometriosis, infertility, miscarriage, IVF, pregnancy, mindset and mental health.

Read more about my story and how our challenge to create our family shaped me, and led me to write The Art of Tryingcreate The Art of Trying Affirmation Cards set, and The Art of Trying Mindset Mentorship.

The Art of Trying

Mindest Mentorship

31 days of mindset coaching, connection, and tools for women creating their family.

Have you been trying to conceive and doing everything you can to achieve that, while people continue to tell you to 'stay positive' (and you secretly want to slap them)?

Are you having a hard time coping with the emotional ups and downs of infertility?

Do you feel like everything is out of your control and you're existing in a parallel universe consumed by the process of trying to create a baby?

And you need support to help you deal with all the waiting, the insensitive questions, and getting through the tough days?

I get it. And that's exactly what the Mindset Mentorship is all about: connection, support, mental health and mindset tools and strategies to support you in conceiving, and help you be the best you can through this time. You are worthy of this!

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The Art of Trying - front cover

The Art of Trying

Amazon International Bestseller

Have you ever wanted something so badly, yet no matter how hard you tried, for a time you couldn’t achieve it?

Do you long for a baby and are going through treatment to become pregnant?

Are you having a hard time coping with infertility?

I did too.

The Art of Trying is an intimate account of my journey to conceive our children, stemming from the journal that I kept over that seven year period. I’ve not held anything back – I go deep into the dark, and the light, of what I experienced and what I learned – about infertility and treatments, loss, mental health, the strength of my mind and body, and my relationships – to receive the most precious gifts in life.

Find out more and get a sneak peek at The Art of Trying book

Resources for extra support during conception and motherhood

Read the blog for insight and inspiration on the journey to, and through, motherhood


Shop for The Art of Trying Mindset Mentorship program, The Art of Trying book, The Art of Trying Affirmation Cards set, and free affirmation printables!



I’d love to know more about you. Let’s connect!